Holy macaroni Black Dog! Where the hell have you been??!!
Well, let me tell ya…..
Life has been total dog poop lately. Shootings, mass murders, radicals running people over in the name of some twisted ideology, police officers being murdered simply because of the uniform they wear, the worst choice of presidential candidates in probably forever.
It would be way too easy for me to continue down this road of all things bad, but I just plain don’t want to. Everyone has an opinion on everything, including me. Much of what I think and believe is bound to piss off somebody, and this is not what I want my little corner of the world to be. It’s much, much too easy to get sucked into all things negative, and once you do, it’s a hard pit to crawl back out of. So, I’m just not going to go there.
That’s the beauty of running, lifting, yoga, even SUPing….you can be in the worst place mentally, and sometimes – nothing is foolproof I know – just a few minutes out in the fresh air can totally change your perspective. That little smile and wave you get when passing a runner going the other way, watching the fish scurry around under your board as you paddle by, actually feeling your head clear as you go through your yoga practice – ALL GOOD THINGS.
I admit sometimes it definitely takes a Herculean effort to get your head back in a good place, but once that effort has been put in, the payback can be priceless. Sometimes that effort includes stepping back from the things – or even the people – that can bring you down and make you feel like there just is no good stuff in the world. Your training may not be going the way you want it to. Just stop for a minute and be grateful that you have a body that at least allows you to put one foot in front of the other. Your significant other left dirty dishes in the sink again after you’ve asked them repeatedly to just wash them and put them away. At least your significant other is still there to annoy you. Your boss is up your dupa again over something totally ridiculous. Why not be grateful that at least you have a way to pay your bills, when so many others do not.
It’s a simple thing…
In a world that, at least these days, is so centered around hate, fear, and hurting each other, it’s sometimes hard to see the good in life. So I send out this challenge to you: each day, if you feel yourself going down that road to bad crap, just stop.
Stop and look around you.
Stop and breathe in the air.
Stop and smile at someone you love.
Stop and think if you really, truly, are as bad off as the guy sleeping on a bench in the rain because he has nowhere else to go.
Stop and think of the people whose loved ones will never walk in the door again. Ever.
Then maybe admit to yourself that your life isn’t quite as bad as you thought it was.
Enjoy the ride.
What are some things you’re grateful for? Do you find it difficult to pull yourself out of a bad place sometimes? What do you do to try to remain positive?